Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Parent's and their gay kids

Well... as anyone that is reading this probably knows, I am gay. Yea shocker I know, someone that has a pic of spiderman and superman kissing, and titled gay nerd ramblings is gay is enough to surprise anyone. Anyway so quick back story, my parents weren't accepting me being gay, which is honestly their rightful opinion. My mom and I still talk so it's not that bad, but I was told I can't bring my partner over to their house because homesexuality is 'a mortal sin'. Some of my family basically believe if you admit your gay you get aids, but thankfully my parent's aren't that out there. Anyway, my step sister called me, asking how I was doing since I moved to North Dakota with my partner Brandon. I told her I was fine and asked her how she is doing. She said she was great and went on a date and she had a great time. One thing lead to another and she told me she's a lesbian...nothing wrong with that, however here is the kicker. She said she knew for a long time but didn't know how to come out until I told my parent's about me having a boyfriend. (they knew I was gay but apparently thought I didn't 'act' on being gay)

My parent's knew for years I was gay, but now my sister wants to tell them she is gay too but wants me to be there...as of right now I don't know if that's a great idea because my parent's and I got into a huge argument with me being gay. My thought is that many ignorant people are going to think that being gay is contagious and that they will build a shelter or something to keep them straight. So I write this to basically get opinions on how I should proceed. Thanks to any who respond.

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